" We don't get his love by living up to his standards. We find his love in the most broken places of our lives. As we let him love us there and discover how to love him in return, we'll find our lives changing in that relationship.
And really fitting if you find get togethers at this time of year challenging:
"Other people's contempt can't touch you if you're not playing their game." ~source here
"When you're not content with reality you will always worry about the way things appear."
I'm pretty sure all quotes come from the same place.
Just need to vacuum and make the bed and I'm ready to call it a night.